Thursday, September 27, 2007

With Fall Came...

A super snaggle toothed boy who got his previously somewhat loose teeth knocked out at recess yesterday while playing tag and getting a head bumped into his mouth.

A silly dog

and her princess

a new trampoline
a cold rainy weekend and snow capped mountains(it's melted now)
a full moon and purple mountains

a yard that seems will never be done b/c we are sick of working on it(Cory especially) and we are now physically ill with headcolds which probably have come to us b/c it's now Fall.

Wednesday, September 19, 2007

another week

Here's Cory reading about our new blender and some recipes that came with it. I think he'd much rather do this than work on the yard.
Avery and the dump truck dumping the sand all over the patio.
I made these two scripture totes at church last night.

Free at last!
our finished fence and a yard in the works

Well the sprinkler system is not going in very quickly. Cory took the day off today so maybe he'll make some progress. The fence is finished and looks nice and we didn't have to do any of it. It's nice to have it done but we can't let the kids out b/c Cory's working on the sprinkler system. He's trying to get the back yard done first. It's nice not having the dog on a chain anymore.

Aiden doesn't like karate too much so he may not continue with it. This first month was a trial month. He wines about going and then pouts afterwards because someone got a new color belt and he didn't or because he can't do things the first time he tries. He's still very happy to just stay home and play. He brought home an essay he had to write about his summer yesterday. He only wrote three sentences, not an essay. He wrote: This summer I went to my Grandma and Grandpa's house. My Grandpa is funny and magic. He can make a coin come out of your ear!

Lidia likes ballet but says they just do the same things over and over. I told her that's how you get better at those things and build muscle memory. She is making friends at school and wants to go to their houses after school to play but I won't let her b/c they don't live close by us and I don't know their parents. I need to set up a play date for her with the girls down the street from us. She doesn't see them at school b/c they go to the charter school. She nor Aiden are playing soccer. I guess no positions have opened up yet. I know there is one open on one team but I guess the coach isn't concerned with filling it.

Tristan is liking school and I guess likes a girl named Shy. He's always talking about how pretty she dresses and that he asked her to be his girlfriend and she said yes but then he asked her again another day and I guess she said no because he told me she broke up with him. I seriously don't know where he learns these things. I told him he's too young to have a girlfriend and he told me he wasn't because they are both five. A couple of days ago I was running errands and got him to school a couple of minutes late and I asked him if he could go in to class by himself. I have been walking him into class everyday but he knows where to go and I pulled right up to the front door. He said he could do it himself and I watched him go inside but something told me I better go in after him and make sure he went into class. So I got out and went in and sure enough he was just standing there in the hall next to his class room door. I asked him why he didn't go in and he said he was scared but I think he was contemplating what he could do if he didn't go in. I sent him in and he was fine. It has been harder for him to adjust. I think he has just realized since starting school that his pals from last year would not be here at the new school. He talks about our old house and people back in Maryland more than the others. One day in Target he asked if we could go to Mason's house or if Mason could come to ours. I told him it was too far away and he just made the assumption that he will never see him again and started wailing right there in the middle of the store.

Avery likes it here and doesn't think about the past. He has always been a daddy's boy and now he loves seeing Grandpa more often. All the kids do, but Avery wakes up in the mornings now and asks where's "bee-ha", that's what he calls him for some reason. I guess he can't say grandpa yet. Avery loves to play outside with his new dump truck and sandbox. He had a great time running around the back yard on Monday after the fence was done. He was so wiped out that he fell asleep about 6:30pm and didn't wake up until I woke him at 8am the next morning.

Ever since we moved out here my car has been making a rattling sound off and on that has had me worried. Well when I stopped and got gas the other day I was looking at the octane rating and how it's lower here and I thought about getting a higher grade but then I thought why waste the money so I didn't but then as soon as I got into the car it clicked in my brain or someone up there was helping me stop long enough to think and I realized the the rattling is probably from the lower octane fuel. Cory looked in the manual and sure enough it said that you are to use at least 85 or it will make a rattling sound and eventually cause permanent engine damage. Well 85's regular back east but not here. Why is that? Why do they sell lower octane gas here? So I had a full tank of the crap stuff so I went and bought some octane booster and put it in and from now on I'll use at least the mid grade. It hasn't been rattling anymore so that's one less thing to worry about. Another problem I had noticed since we moved here but not stopped long enough to think about it too much is that my bathtub drains way slow. I would think that everytime I took a bath but then dismiss the thought until the next time. Well I stopped to think again and actually unscrewed the drain plug thing and there was a bunch of crap in there from construction. I threw away the nasty junk and it works great now. I was going to call the builders to have someone come and fix it. I'm glad I didn't. They would have told me to just clean my drain every time I clean the tub or something.

Friday, September 14, 2007

girls night out


Carrie and I have decided we must have a monthly girls night out. Last night was the first. We met at the mall and had a bite to eat and went to Macy's and once they closed we went to Target and then to the late movie. We saw Stardust. It was really good. It's one I'll likely buy and watch many times. It was fun to go out with my pal and I got some really good este lauder concealer. If I don't wear concealer everyone tells me how tired I look. It's annoying b/c I'm usually not tired. I've just inherited dark skin around my eyes. I also bought mascara and got some free makeup and perfume in a cute bag. I love those promotions. Last weekend I got to go out to dinner with Carolyn, so I guess I got two girls nights this month. I guess I should get a sitter and have a date night with my husband once a month too.
We are having the yard trenched Saturday and getting started on our sprinkler system. We're doing it all ourselves. Everyone says it's not hard, just takes quite a bit of time. Wish us luck!
I also need to get some spackle and patch up and paint the 4 dents Avery put in the wall in my brand new house. I was very upset when I discovered 3 dents in the wall going upstairs and another in his room. I will just have to fix it and get over it. It's kind of my fault. I have had a problem with Tristan and Avery going in Lidia and Aiden's rooms while they are at school at messing up their stuff. I thought I should bring some toys they really like up to their room so they would play in there instead. Well I guess I was wrong to choose the trains to bring up. It was the wooden Thomas the train and his pals that put those dents in my walls. I guess Avery was a little rough while playing. I didn't see or hear it happen but Avery said he did it. Needless to say the trains are back in the basement and I put a bunch of stuffed animals in their room instead. They never put any dents in the wall at any of our other homes. They had to wait until we had a brand new home. Oh well, I think I can repair it and make it not very noticeable.

Speaking of girlfriends, here are some good ones from Maryland. I forgot to post these before I moved. The first is me and Laura. The other is me with Bev and Ginger.

Sunday, September 09, 2007

yard work and stuff


Friday we had a load of topsoil delivered and spent all day Saturday spreading it all over the yard. we just realized we should have done it after we put in sprinklers but it'll be ok. we'll just roll the dirt after we put in sprinklers and fertilize it before we put down the sod. Grandpa and Grandma and Ben and Brooke came to help. It was a busy day but renting the skipster helped a lot. The kids love their uncle Ben. Avery and Tristan kept following him around. They love it when the grandparents come down too. Aiden says we should have moved to Idaho next door to them. The kids have noticed how close we are to everything here like stores, school, and church, doctors office, library etc. These things are all less than a mile away. Where we used to live it was 8-10 miles from anything. They keep saying,"Wow, that wasn't very long". They love being able to walk or ride bikes places. The kids ride their bikes a lot here and the peer pressure has worked in a good way for Aiden. He took the initiative yesterday to be brave and ride Lidia's bike. I told him that if he practiced on her bike and proved that he could ride, I would buy him his own bike. He did pretty well. I am helping him start but after that he's riding pretty well. He's very proud of himself and wants to keep practicing. Lidia's class is going on a field trip at the end of the month that is a two mile bike ride over by the marshes by the salt lake. She is very excited about it. Friday I took the kids for well child visits and to get shots because they require Hep A here and they are suggesting two chicken pox vaccines now instead of just one. I am so glad I had Cory take off work early to go with me because the kids were awful. Four kids in one little office is bad on it's own b/c they are constantly getting into everything in the room and bouncing off the walls but when they learned they were getting shots they were not too happy about it and were trying to hide behind the exam table. When the time finally came to get the shots rigt before you leave, they started whining asking us to please not give them shots. Lidia was the worst. She kept crying,"no mommy please no mommy please don't let them give me a shot". I tried to explain things to her but she was not acting rational. We made the mistake of having the boys go first. Avery was oblivious as to what was going on until it was over with. He cried for a minute and then calmed down. I kind of had to hold tristan down and he cried a little bit but was ok. I think he and Aiden were kind of curious about it and so they didn't mind it so much. I asked Aiden to act like it was no big deal to help Lidia. He made a little moan when the needles went in but that was it. Well by this time Lidia had really worked herself up and had her arms and legs wrapped around the side of the chair and was determined not to let go. Cory and I both had to pull her away and force her up onto the table while she was kicking and punching and screaming. Cory sat up on the table with her in his lap and wrapped his arms and legs around her so that she couldn't move and told the nurses to go ahead. The two nurses got on each side of her and said, "one, two, three go" the needles went in and she screamed so loud. The whole office probably thought we were torturing her. After all that craziness we took them to Baskin Robbins for ice cream and they've been fine since. Too bad I have to take them all back in 6 months for the other hep a shot. On Saturday Lidia had tryouts for the Nutcracker but didn't get selected. She hasn't had class for the past two years up until a week ago but she said she did everything right and smiled the whole time. She was pretty let down. When she got in the car and told us she didn't get chosen Aiden said,"Well you must not have a very good teacher". Then last night she said that she thinks she didn't get chosen b/c there were just too many girls trying out. She said there were 80 girls trying out in her height division. At the most there we maybe half that many parts for that height division so it's kind of luck I think. How different can they all be at that age? So I guess she feels a little better. In Maryland, everyone who wanted to was in it. Maybe next year. She will have a recital in June though so I told her to look forward to that. Today at church Cory and I received callings and spoke in sacrament meeting. They called Cory to be cub master and they called me to be in charge of an annual fund raiser for children's primary hospital called pennies by the inch. I don't mind doing it but I don't see how this is a church calling. I have never heard of the church being associated with fundraisers like this before. This is just something that will take a month. After that I'm sure they'll find something else for me to do or I'll just help Cory out with his calling. I am hating all the mosquitos here. Were are getting eaten up by them. They need to fog the neighborhoods here like they do back east. I guess tomorrow we'll draw out our lot and get planning the sprinkler system so we can get it started. We may hire a guy in our ward to help. He does it as a side job but right now he's busy working as a teacher and coaching games in the evenings so he may only be able to help out a bit on Saturdays. We need to get started on it asap so we will likely to most of it ourselves. I am hoping to get sod in in about two weeks. Cory and I are taking a family history class during Sunday school over the next 4 months. I am working on my dad's line. Our teacher really knows his stuff and lives right behind me if I need his help.

Friday, September 07, 2007

pictures?

No pictures. I keep forgetting to take any pics of anything and I'm kind of too busy to bother. Perhaps tomorrow I will take some pics. We'll see. The milkman came Thursday morning. The kids found it fun to go to the box on the porch and each bring in a jug. Last night was the back to school carnival. The kids really enjoyed it. Aiden also had his first karate lesson. He liked it. Today I have to take all the kids to the doctor for well child visits and shots. Apparently there are shots required here that are not required in Maryland. We are also having a dump truck full of topsoil being delivered today. We have to get busy with the yard before cold weather hits. The soil has a lot of clay in it so we are mixing in some topsoil and building up some areas around the house for flower beds and a garden. The fence posts will be put in Monday. We have got to get our sprinkler system planned out and put it in and after all this and the fence is done we will lay sod. We also bought some blinds we need to get up some time. We got a real bargain on the blinds at Lowes. We paid like 5 bucks and they are regularly 70. They were miscuts to someone else but fit our windows just fine. The kids are liking school and seem to be doing fine. They don't seem to have missed anything significant by starting late. I don't know if I like this Friday early out thing they do here. It throws me off to have Friday be a different schedule than every other day. It doesn't fit my weekday routine so there has to be a uniquely Friday routine. It doesn't set right with my system. I suppose I'll get used to it eventually but I don't see why they do it. Well I better go find some files and shot records. They're in a box in the garage still.

Tuesday, September 04, 2007

A Different Day

This morning Cory woke up really early vomiting. Poor guy. He's home resting today. I am praying the rest of us don't get it. I walked Lidia and Aiden to school for their first day. Most kids walk or ride their bikes without any grownups but I think that's crazy and irresponsible. No one is outside supervising the kids before school. They just play on the playground or hang out outside until the bell rings. They are not allowed inside until the bell rings at 8:30 and then they have to be in their class in the next five minutes or they're late. At 3:30 they are just dismissed to go as they please. This is so very different than back east. I told the kids I will meet them right outside the door to walk them home. My fear is that Tristan will go somewhere else so I've got to be there before he is dismissed and talk to his teacher about his disappearing acts. I really think it's lucky for the school that something bad hasn't happened and they haven't been sued. Other things that are different is that they only have PE once a week and there is not a music or art teacher and they don't change classes for different subjects. Art and music are just incorporated into the classroom sometimes and they spend more time just learning instead of all the extras. I used to love all the special classes they had in Maryland but then my kids were struggling with the basics. I think this will be good. My kids need more time learning. We cover all the fun extras at home anyway. They are using a computer program four days a week that assesses them as they go and so it lets the teacher know where they are in math and reading and helps them set individual goals. I like this idea. I also like that they have the same teacher all day at this age, especially for Aiden who has a quirky personality that the teacher has to get used to. Tristan goes to school after lunch. He can't wait. He wants to go now. I am excited for them all to get to know people here and feel like they belong. Another thing that's different here that i really like is that there is a milkman. Twice a week the local dairy delivers in my area. So on Monday and Thursday mornings I will wake up with fresh milk waiting outside my door. It comes in half gallon containers that you rinse and set out for him to pick up next time he comes. They wash and reuse them so it reduces trash. Also the milk is free of artificial hormones and less than 12 hours old and hasn't seen light until the sun comes up the day you get it. This means it's more nutritious. They also sell some other things you can have them deliver with your milk. You can change what you're getting until 10pm the night before. Can you tell I'm excited about this? It's a little pricer than milk at Costco but not more than the grocery store. It saves me weekly trips to costco though. Other things I can stock up on and only go once a month or so. Cory and I have been asked to speak in church this Sunday. I hope we are all well and not sick like Cory is today. Cory is dying to play tennis but it always seems no one wants to play and I can't play with him b/c of the kids. Ben and Jay, you are going to have to set up a regular tennis date with your brother. Maybe if you're free on some Saturday he could come down and play with you.